Monday, July 05, 2004

Why Indian men suck

1. A "No!" from a woman is interpreted as (i) "Yes!" (ii) "Oh, Yes!" (iii) The woman being modest and shy and actually meaning "Yes!"
2. Indulgent mothers inflating their sense of importance - A daughter can well become the president of the republic and the mother thinks, "well, after all the effort I've spent on my daughter, this is expected of her." If the son turns out to be a lower division clerk in a government department, most mothers think, "My Son has proved how talented, wonderful and God-like he is!"
3. Most Indian women spoiling them silly and inflating their already bloated egos. Eg. X was interested in Y. So X cooked, cleaned, ironed, washed, coddled Y ad nauseum without thinking there was anything wrong with her behaviour.
4. Most Indian women needing a man at the epicentre of their universe and thinking that happiness is incomplete without a male appendage.

I am just so pissed off today, bah!

35 Comments:

At 2:11 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Indian men are the worst species on the earth! I can't tell you what they are! They really trest women very bad.. and rape foreigners who go to tour India, that's why not many foreigners visit this country...

 
At 8:12 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes, my husband is Indian and he thinks he is God. He treats me like I am his slave, and treats everyone else in the world the same way! Not only my husband is like this, but tons of other Indian men too as I have observed. Who do these third world animals think they are? They are the most uncivilized species of all humans. They are also dictatorial, aggressive, rude and superficial. They are so stupid with their millions of rituals and dumb Hindi gods/goddesses. Why did I marry Indian? That is a good question.

 
At 4:16 PM, Anonymous Anand Bhat said...

whoa! not all Indian men are like that. I am an Indian man and I not a " 3rd world nation animal". Please watch Jerry springer sometime, not too many Indians on that show. Racists.

 
At 5:58 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I dated an Indian guy for 7 months who told me he loved me and talked about the future with me and about how his family was going to love me and blah blah blah.

Then he just up and one day out of the blue broke up with me talking about how he couldn't feel satisfied in his life if he didn't take a few years to do everything he could to become a millionaire, billionaire, trillionaire,.....

He still texts me everyday and wanted to keep dating but only if I didn't pressure him about getting serious again or anything at all about marriage for the next few years.

He even told me that he knew for 2 months that he wanted to take a step back but didn't want to hurt me, instead he thought the best thing to do was to not spend hardly anytime with me and then tried to turn it around and make me feel bad for him.

Even the nice Indian guys who swear they're not like the typical Indian guy is just lying or fooling himself. Either way most of us girls who date Indian men end up broken, lying on the side of the road after being promised the sun moon and stars and then have them shattered in front of us.

I just think most of them are cruel and don't care cause mommy and daddy can always find them a "nice" indian girl to marry.

 
At 9:44 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Writing in anger because tonight I am not feeling understanding and compassionate. Tonight, I am mad.

I have been dumped because I am a white American, in America. I've been told I was not good enough for an Indian man and his family. That because his family could never be happy with me then he could never be happy with me. Therefore he must marry someone better than me, an Indian woman. Not American trash such as myself.

This discovery came after visiting his family in India. After all of the convincing he did to let me know that he wanted to be with me and thought we might have a future together, that he was his own man and he wanted to be with me, how he would not be the cliche of Indian men with American woman (I did not not walk into this blindly...thought I was being so smart and cautious). Then overnight..BAM...bye bye got to go find my Indian princess.

Okay, yes I'm angry but whoever wrote the word "racists" before....most of these postings are coming from anger because Indian men have come here and have acted with racism towards American woman...in their own country of birth! And to make it worse it's the two faces, the final face is the one that says you are American and not good enough for me or my family...but thanks for all of the fun times, I was bored before.

I have NEVER for one day been racist, thought of myself as better, more important than someone else in another country, never thought no I wouldn't date you because of where you were born, who your parents are, what your health is like (seriously, like a cow at the market).

This experience has brought up feelings in me that feel gross and ugly. It's awful.

The fair compassionate side understands it's more complicated, this is a whole different culture, he is a good man, this wasn't intended. But tonight, I'm angry.

 
At 11:25 PM, Blogger Plumpernickel said...

Dear American women anonymous commentors - What can one say? If you think what you encountered was bad, please bear in mind that it is much worse for Indian women. I truly apologise for the louse who hurt you. This is the precise reason why I feel Indian men are the lousiest on the planet.

The truth is that from the time an Indian man is born till he dies he is entitled and nothing seems to change even today. Self-awareness in Indian men is non-existent.

I understand the pain of being rejected on idiotic grounds, but believe me, you've been saved a lot of future rubbish and emtional fuckwittage.

 
At 11:35 PM, Anonymous Rahul said...

Indian man here *sigh*

 
At 11:52 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have to agree with all said. I am an American woman married an India dental surgeon. I have 3 young children in America. Good thing the marriage was not able to be registered - beuracracy and document issues. so here i am back in America since my tourist visa was about to expire. But yes he was emotionally, mentally and only one time physcially abusive with me. The mind games were really phenomenal - and although he says he is not taking me away from my children - it is always seeming like he is making me choose between who I love more - my children or him. He expects me to leave everything he re and go live with him in India. But the 2 months I had spent there - he had treated me like dirt. Flirting with other women, even afte marriage....saying they were "just friends"...threatening divorce just 10 days after the marriage even though it is not registered...never answering my questions he never does anything wrong..blames it all on me. As if I can control another person's actions. And he was all I had to depend on there in India. He still expects me to come back there....but I'm not going. Because the marriage is not registered the US does not recognize it. So screw him AND his emotional blackmail bullshit. And I am still recovering from all of this. My self esteem is still recovering and have to rebuild my life. See? He talked a big line of BS - or I obviously would not have gone there. He said my life was not a joke - but that IS what he had made it. I had put a lot on the line for this idiot. When it was good it was like heaven...and when it was bad i wished i was dead. And yes it may be Indian man mentality. So I have been told. I really hope that isn't true. i figure he just wants me there so he cans have someone to torment and abuse who is completely dependent on him. That's the recipe isn't it? And yes he also treats other people the same way - unless it is a patient - and that's because they will give him money for his services. Still he thinks he is like a God. Unbelievable. So...beware. And you are safer in your own country. Believe me.....I did NOT think this man would treat me like this either. I had first gone to visit him for 10 days...it went well. So i came back to marry him - thought we were "soulmates". And I ended up in hell. If someone would have told me this would happen....I would not have believed them either. but be cautious. They should visit you in YOUR country and marry you there and live in YOUR country. If there is love....so he will do that. Being American...no we don't understeand the cultural issues and American women are usually equals and NOT submissive. We don't have to put up with such things here. On the other hand - I did love India aend most of the people, culture, everything. and nobody there knew exactly how he was with me....he did not do it in front of others. So yes, some can be the epitome of an abusive man and damn good at it. i would think it is learned behavior maybe?

 
At 7:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Come on guys..the honey and the moon tastes and looks heavenly :-) ! Why go willingly then complain if you missed to find out that the Wolf was actually a goat not a sheep with no clothes !! :-)

 
At 8:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I understand your anger, but like the other commentor said, you are better off away from this deceitful savage. You have described Indian men perfectly. I will never, as long as I live, so much as tell an Indian man what time it is if he asks me. They are wolves in sheeps clothing, in love with themselves, and like little boys coddled by an unnaturally attached mother. I really believe some of these guys may even cross the lines with their mothers. I'm dead serious. They're just sick, twisted, obscene freaks. It's like they want what they hate or hate what they want when they date outside of their culture. Best leave these creatures to themselves. But truthfully, I think Indian women get it way worse than non Indian. I am forever trying to fix my Indian friends/classmates/coworkers up with white guys so they can see there is a better life outside of these idiots that barely rate as men. Oh, and lastly, they suck in bed.

 
At 11:02 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had an Indian guy friend who listened to what was in my heart. If I wanted to eat at a restaurant, he humbly ate there with me. If I complained about my weight, he never went there. If I was worried about my boss, he listened like a father or mother figure. I will miss him till the day I die. Plus, he was a model back in India and looked like a million bucks. Maybe you guys should not stereotype. The same culture you are putting down also reveres women in the form of the goddess Durga. I am sorry that these men sucked but being an Indian American woman, I know that there are cultural taboos in India that need to be done away with. One of them is that of marrying a 'gori' or white woman. Women are women. So, what happened to the caucasian woman who lost her guy to racism is really unfair and I will pray for her tonight that she finds the love of her life and that he is cooler than that one Indian guy. But don't stereotype.

 
At 7:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

they suck they rape women like what the fuck do they think of themselves... i mean do they evr lok in the mirror and see them selves .. they rape women and children like omg... if i were an indian i wud be ashamed to say i am 1

 
At 9:39 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am an Indian woman and was earlier in an extremely (physical, emotional, mental,and financial)abusive marriage with an Indian man. I was forced to go into hiding to escape him as he made my life HELL. Luckily I could 'earn' a divorce while I was came to the U.S. (how cool!). In the meantime I fell in love with a white guy from the U.S. and we both are happily married. Although my ex- is not a representative ample of the Indian men but it was horrifying to understand when I saw that he received support from every person around him to pursue me i.e his community, his workplace, and his Christian religious organization- to ladies out there- never marry an Indian Christian- they are the worst!! Their community sucks everywhere. Period. However, I started dating other Indian men before I fell in love with my old friend and who later became my husband. It was quite a trip knowing each one of them- they use women only for sex, will express love to get sex in return, and mind you they fall on your feet to get sex (what is call in the U.S. as sympathy fuck). They are so disgusting in their other habits and expectations also. Most Indian men think any woman should be willing to sleep with a man if they wish to increase their prospects of marriage with the person. Did it feel good to kick their ass! However, they are masters in the art of manipulating women, VERY charming I must say- even the most unattractive of the lot can make your legs turn into jellies- again ladies be warned! And one they have secured their catch they discard their mask. However, I think it is the mothers and older women who have enabled such behavior and also younger women who do not know any better! To sum it up: Indian men are sick in the head. My (white) husband wants an assurance every now and then from me if anything was to happen to him I should never marry an Indian man! I can say to any one out there- if a white guy or girl chooses to marry an Indian woman he/she may not have a bad deal but for a straight white woman marrying an Indian man- be prepared for the worst!! We must not generalize but the chances of finding a good one are not encouraging.

 
At 2:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a man and I can tell u know that woman are far,far,far more important than men. It should be men that is abused! Not woman they are gods to us filthy men! I am ashamed to be part of such a BARBARIC sex!!!

 
At 6:20 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

ONLY WESTERN RAISED INDIANS ARE GOOD! Indian Americans, Indian Canadians, Indian English, and other Western born/raised Indians are the best. ESPECIALLY if their parents are liberal enough to LET them date.
If you find a good looking Indian guy that is like what I described above, then snag him ASAP. There are VERY few Indian guys like that. That's why no one wants to date them.
NEVER date an Indian from India. They don't know how to treat women. All dating for them is copied from a Hollywood movie.

 
At 6:50 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Can't Indian men ever wear anything other than smelly, ugly, sandals?!It is so gross to have to be in a store and you see these guys donning such gross footwear. And another major peeve regarding Indian men is that many of them that I've crosses paths with reek of body odor! Is there something "sacred" in their culture to smell like a barrel of garlic? And why do so many Indian drivers drive in the dark with their headlights off? It's become common place where I live to see nighttime drivers with their lights off and they're either Chinese or Indians behind the wheel, with their sunvisors down yet! l
Lol...

 
At 11:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

A lot of Indian women themselves are stuck up and arrogant, most Indian men are nice guys, that is why they go nowhere with women.

I have no idea why you put down Indian men, but come to Russia and see how the men treat women here, Russian women love Indian men, for good reasons.

 
At 8:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like the sandals Indian men wear. I'm a sandal wearer myself. I really like the look of stonewashed Levi's and leather sandals on not only Indian men but all guys. Very hot!!!!

 
At 6:08 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Being a second generation Indian American Women, I still say not every Indian Man is like this. There are two coins to every side. But the generalizations are true. most are very egoistic and attached to their moms. Solution: Don't get involved with One!

I am dating a Indian American born in the USA like myself...and so so good.

 
At 12:09 PM, Blogger shweta MG said...

Very correct

 
At 11:44 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

to an extend what you guyss told is true..being an indian there are good and bad ones here and after becaming emmotionally and physically mature many indian men became a baby of their mother....kick their ass if you see such guyss.but never think that all the indians are the same there are many ggoodd one around out of 6 billion people india to give evrything there could be 50 million bad guys and 5 billion good guyss in india..but u guys always see the bad not the good ones.

 
At 7:38 PM, Blogger Lori said...

Indian men are the worst partners in the universe. They are spoiled, arrogant, egotistical, and selfish. I blame their mothers. No matter how much of a louse their son is, the mother insists he can do no wrong. Indians are also racist, and will use western women and then discard them as if they were a used kleenex. I used to have respect and admiration for the Indian culture, but not anymore. They are the most racist, sexist, disgusting culture I've ever had the displeasure of interacting with. If you are also a western woman who had her heart broken by, and was deceived and betrayed by, and Indian man - please contact me. I'm writing an article and would love your feedback. We might also be able to offer each other a bit of understanding and empathy.

 
At 7:43 PM, Blogger Lori said...

And I agree, if you have to date an Indian man, for God's sakes don't date a Christian one. What a joke. Indian Christians are the biggest hypocrites in the universe. Ugh. My ex and his entire family disgust me with their hatred, selfishness, hypocrisy, and fake religion. They cheat, they steal, they lie, they use people for their own good, take advantage of anyone they can, and then turn their noses down at others as if they were too good for them. Perhaps the most entertaining thing they do is obsess about "honor" and their family reputation as if they were famous - first, they have no honor to protect as they are low life scumbags. And second, nobody knows who they are or gives a damn. Wow. They are delusional. Especially, mommy, who rules the household with an iron fist. Wow. Indian men are like infants. It's completely insane. Grow up! And moms, set your sons free. What you do to them is disgusting and creepy!

 
At 7:47 PM, Blogger Lori said...

Oh, and the last thing - all Indian men cheat. They cheat on their wives, on their girlfriends, on their lovers ... that's because the only woman in their life they have any respect for is their mother. They are as much as married to their moms. My Indian finance married and Indian woman, didn't tell me, and kept up our relationship and engagement as if nothing had changed. I became suspicious and was a nervous wreck for three months until I finally found proof - a wedding photo his wife or mother had placed in his wallet. But to his family, I was the bad guy - not him. How sick can you get? If my son did that to anyone, I'd kill him, and I'd ask forgiveness from the woman he hurt for my part in raising such a louse.

 
At 10:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah,you are right! Indian men are the worst guys on planet earth! Wanna know why? Because,when im with my friends on the library,i am using hangouts,then someone add me,i accepted it,and he invited me for a video call,but i dont want to,so i asked him first who is he and where country did he live,hebreplied "India" then i asked 'Do you know me?' He answered no,andthen replied, "No,i dont,but i like you,you are very beautiful." Then he sent me a photo,i was disgusted when i saw it.. then i blocked him,all indian guys are creepy and weurdo,if they are stalking you,then they are flirting with you!! ��

 
At 5:02 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i know its kind of late, but i was searching the internet on this issue.
Yes I agree with everyone. Indian men most of them are horrible. They treat their wife like they are are a maid or not someone special and they think they are God . Why? because their mom makes them that way.
I am married to an Indian guy. Its very stressful, depressing most of the time. Their mother is another story. She will come up with diff kind of problem daily just to make our life miserable and her son will start making it an issue.
The mom will start making your holiday plan and if she can she wants to know the color of the poops as well. They think their son can do no wrong.

My husband cheated on me and I took him back cause he begged me. And I told the family even the sister who act like she's so westernized but still have Indian mind. Everyone ended up blaming me. I am the root cause of everything bad that happened. I am not Indian and not Hindu. This one time the mom threatened to jump an 11 stories apt. I said go ahead. Guess what she did not jump.

She will be sick one way or the other everyday just so the son will start feeling guilty. There;s so many issue. When we go out my husband's eyes will be fixed to other girls or other people and guess what thats what the parents do as well. They like to look at others even when it means they have to twist their neck 360(just saying)
Its dreadful Its not fun,
If you can avoid them by all means please. I can write a book with this stuff.

 
At 5:53 AM, Blogger Unknown said...

Oh I'd love to tell my story!

 
At 7:27 AM, Blogger Kat Magallan said...

I love the color of an Indians skin and for the most part I like the way they talk but yes I've met a few who are like the ones everyone has described. But there is one whom I've come to really love, he says he loves me too but his mother is pushing him to marry an Indian girl. It's driving me crazy because as an American girl I could never understand why he would allow someone else to dictate his happiness. He's a really good guy, very kind, considerate, allows me to be me and really, he's an amazing lover though he hasn't been with many girls (or so he says and I'm inclined to believe him cuz he doesn't fit the type to be a lier, and I've known quite a few in my day). I just don't know what to do, should I even bother to continue? Cuz right now we're on a break, told him that if he really loved me he wouldn't allow customs to get in the way of our love. I'm getting the feeling though that I'll never get him back and if I do then I'll just end up getting heartbroken again. I've already been married once, to a Mexican, and he put his mother before me, I can't go through that again. UGH! So frustrating!

 
At 11:33 PM, Blogger Unknown said...

This American girl wouldn't trade her beautiful brown boy from Kerala for any other.

 
At 6:27 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes unfortunatly the mothers teach their sons to treat women like shit, I am Indian and just bcuz I don't look like the conventional Indian types I was treated badly many times.

 
At 8:36 PM, Blogger kartik said...

As a western raised Indian guy im severely disgusted and saddened by what I'm reading. It's despicable and atrocious the way the women are treated. The way the women are abused im completely against, I have no problem with Indian women dating outside the race. Its sad the reputation is so bad. I really blame the culture, diet, and the insecurities the guys have.

 
At 9:30 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I married an Indian guy and we ended up separating after a year of marriage.He lied to me and cheated on me. We are living in the US, im a US citizen and he came here on tourist visa, though we have known each other for long time. We got married here un US and we legalized his papers to be a resident here. His family doesnt know abt all these things going on with his life. He promised me to introduce me to his family at a later time, i trusted and believed in him. He went vacation after a year, i didnt go with him coz i have obligations with my work. He said he will visit them for 2 weeks only. Unknown to me, there was a planned arranged marriage by his.family.He came back not telling me abt it, but I soon found out coz i saw some papers he brought back here in the US and also saw pics of his marriage in facebook page of the woman's brother. He denied at first, but our relationship took to a wrong turn and he decided to go back India. He chose the Indian girl over me coz of his family culture and tradition and customs. Never really thinking all the trouble and hurt he had done to me. indian men dont decide for their life, their family, especially their parents decides for them. it is a sad reality.

 
At 11:24 PM, Blogger Lori Mc said...

100% correct coming from white American woman who will never date Indian loser men again. Pieces of shit. Period.

 
At 11:29 PM, Blogger Lori Mc said...

Bullshit. I dated Westernized Indian men. Still psychopaths in hiding. Its seems engrained in their genes to be douche bags.

 
At 11:30 PM, Blogger Lori Mc said...

I'm willing and boy do I have some stories. Rich educated Indian men very Americanized.

 

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